Infidelity can be difficult to define. This is because what is considered infidelity or cheating to one person or in one relationship might not be in another.

Every couple can make their own rules and boundaries regarding cheating. For some people, viewing pornography might be seen as cheating, while for others, this isn't an issue in a relationship at all. 

It's even possible for cheating to occur in a polyamorous relationship when one partner breaks the established boundaries.

There are many ways to have a healthy relationship. However, when one partner crosses boundaries or enters into another relationship or has intimacy without the consent of their partner, it can be considered infidelity.

There are different types of infidelity. Most often, people talk about having a physical affair or sexual intimacy with another person, without the permission or consent of their partner.

However, affairs aren't always physical. An emotional affair that never becomes physical can also be damaging to individuals and to the relationship. Emotional affairs are also common, and they can even occur completely digitally.

As mentioned above, affairs happen in many situations, and the impact can vary. Even if one partner didn't consider their behavior to be an affair, their actions may still feel like infidelity and cause harm to the partner.

There are many reasons why someone might enter into an affair. They may feel unhappy in their relationship or unhappy with other aspects of their life. They may seek emotional intimacy or physical intimacy with another person because they perceive a lack in their current relationship.

However, not all cases of infidelity occur because a partner is unhappy with their current spouse or partner. Instead, the partner who cheats may feel a lack of self-esteem, have issues with sex addiction or other addictive behaviors, or want to engage in risky behaviors for other reasons.

Infidelity can have many impacts on individuals and couples. The betrayed partner will often deal with severe negative emotions because of the infidelity. 

They may feel confused and angry. Some common impacts of infidelity on the betrayed partner include:

• Worsened mental health including issues with anxiety and depression
• Rage and anger
• Lowered self-esteem and confidence
• Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
• Loss of trust in the committed relationship and other relationships
• Increased likelihood of substance abuse

When the injured partner finds out about an affair, they may also be more likely to take risks in their own life, such as seeking out more sexual partners of their own.

Infidelity is often traumatic and difficult. While this is especially true for the injured partner, the person who cheats also can benefit from therapy.

At OneLife Counseling, Jeremy Magin offers infidelity counseling that seeks to help both partners in the affair recovery process. He will work to address issues in the relationship as well as individual problems that might have led to the affair.

Finding a resolution in infidelity therapy can look very different depending on the couple and the situation. Sometimes, both parties want to work toward staying together and healing. Other times, the best outcome in couples counseling is for the relationship to end, as this offers more healing and happiness.

Jeremy Magin will work with each of you as individuals and as a unit to help you process the emotions and make the best decision for you.

At OneLife Counseling, you'll work through the emotions and relationship impacts in a safe environment guided by an experienced therapist.

During the process, Jeremy Magin will individualize the therapy to fit the needs of each individual and the couple as a unit.

Often, infidelity counseling involves:

• Focusing on honesty for both partners.
• Healing happens on your own time; it isn't always linear.
• Exploring complexities to find the best next steps.

With the support of therapist Jeremy Magin, you'll receive support through this infidelity counseling process. OneLife Counseling is also an LGBTQ+ affirming therapist office.

Infidelity therapy is often a very sensitive subject. You may be in a lot of pain and worried about your relationship. You may also wonder what to do next and whether or not you should end the relationship or marriage.

At OneLife Counseling, Jeremy Magin will help you process and work through intense emotions, whatever they might be. During infidelity counseling, you'll help guide the sessions and therapeutic approach so you feel comfortable.

Discover more about infidelity counseling options in Denver by reaching out today. Get started with a free consultation.